Dear Eric: I play in a community orchestra and sit next to a woman who sometimes comes to rehearsal smelling strongly of alcohol. She has told me that she has been arrested for DUI. We are friendly but don’t see each other outside of orchestra rehearsals and concerts.

I honestly had no idea I was already pregnant when I met Steve. How do I tell Steve the truth? It would crush him to find out this highly anticipated baby is not actually his. He might dump me and then I would be all alone.